Communication is key
Last night we had another argument….what was the topic? Communication! Why is it so hard to just communicate. I’m obviously not expressing my thoughts clearly and Brian isn’t expressing his at all!
It all started with a problem I was having that I needed a sounding board for. I had to get up early this morning for work so I just wanted to talk through options so I could go to bed. I said, “Brian, what are we going to do? Help me talk this through and pick some options.” I said this a few times as I throw some ideas out there and I get nothing. Not even a nodding of the head. AHHHHHH!!!
So I escalate and say, I’d like to talk now. Do you not care?
Thus, he slams his laptop and the arguement begins. We never got back around to the issue at hand. Thus I still have not had a chance to talk to him about the original problem. Its almost 1pm and he hasn’t even come downstairs. I guess I will decide what I think is best and do it with or without him. 
All couples have issues and I know many are worst off than we are. Communication is key. We’re working on it.