To speak or not to speak…that is the question.
So recently, Brian and I have been in several situations in which we weren’t sure if we should speak our mind or not. I am generally a pretty blunt person. However, I know when not to speak too.
I very much enjoy hurting someone’s feelings if I don’t like them. But if they are nice and sweet, but just clueless….what do you do? I didn’t realize how much I miss some of my closest friends. I sat and thought about it the other day. How much of my day do I spend thinking about how others will take my comments. *sigh*
Why can’t people just appreciate good criticism?
So a situation has come up where we feel we are being used. Don’t get me wrong, we love helping others. We do. But ask us to help. Just say, “Can you help me?”